Archive for November, 2008

Transgender Day of Remembrance

Friday, November 21st, 2008

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I was in Tucson the last couple of days for work and last night I had the chance to check out an event that Wingspan, a local LGBT community center, was hosting. I’ve been getting to know a couple of the folks that work in the youth program over there called Eon, and they invited me to participate in their annual Transgender Day of Remembrance event. We gathered in a local park holding candles and reading allowed the names of those we were killed this year because of the way they wanted to express their gender. Excuse me they were violently, brutally murdered because of who they were. The event was really powerful.

We then walked through the neighborhood holding our candles back to the center where we heard from Sylvia Guerrero, Gwen Araujo’s mother. I remember when Gwen was killed back when I was at school in Santa Barbara. It was around the same time a gay man was set on fire in his bed, in his own home in Santa Barbara and burned to death. Gwen was a young trans woman who was murdered by a group of men at a house party in the Bay Area. Sylvia Guerrero has been speaking to audiences since her daughter’s death.

Events like Transgender Day of Remembrance take place for us to mourn the deaths of these victims and to honor their lives. They also serve to remind us that we live in and amongst a world of people who are deeply hateful, and frankly disgusted by those of us in the queer community. You don’t just need elections to prove it; blood has been spilled. According to Sylvia Guerrero, in Gwen’s court case the men that killed her weren’t tried on a hate crime, they were tried for murder, but no hate crime. In this case lawyers introduced a “gay panic” defense. Meaning “I panicked when I realized that I’m into queer sex and then brutally murdered her.”

All of this makes me sick and makes me want to start a queer militia where we learn to fight and shoot and roam the streets looking for trouble…But in the meantime I’m gonna go ahead and support the work of wonderful lgbt community centers like Wingspan youth programs like EON.

LGBT Stereotypes Study

Thursday, November 20th, 2008

I received this survey from a friend this morning and I wanted to pass it on to you all. It comes from the Psychology Department at Brooklyn College - CUNY.

The survey examines people’s beliefs about sexual minorities. You are welcome to participate in this survey if you are gay, lesbian, bisexual or transgendered.

For every person who completes this survey, $2 will be dontaed to Pride For Youth - a service and advocate for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) youth. Its mission is to enhance the health, wellness and cultural competency of LGBT young people through supportive services, education and youth development. For more information about Pride For Youth, please visit their website: www.prideforyouth.org.

Also, at the end of the survey, you will be able to submit your email address to be entered into a raffle to win one of two $50 American Express gift cheques. The raffle will take place as soon as we have enough people who completed the survey.

This survey will take about 15mins of your time. If you begin the survey, there is no way to stop it and return to it later. So please be sure to complete the survey in one sitting.

To complete the survey please click here.

A Strategy to Cut off Support Services

Wednesday, November 19th, 2008

RH Reality Check posted a piece this morning that I wanted to pass on, it’s an example of a very quick effective pro-life grassroots strategy that cut off support services for women seeking abortions in New Jersey.

The Family Research Council, led by Tony Perkins, convinced a New Jersey hotel to stop offering discounted room rates to women coming to the state seeking abortion care. Read more about it here.

What Can Shock Tyra Banks?

Tuesday, November 18th, 2008

Teens and sex. Ten-thousand teenage girls were surveyed through an anonymous survey on TyraShow.com that focused on questions about sexuality, STDs, teen pregnancy, drinking, drugs and violence. And the results of the survey did more than shock Tyra, it even shocked me:

  • On average, girls are losing their virginity at 15 years of age.
  • 14 percent of teens who are having sex say they’re doing it at school.
  • 52 percent of survey respondents say they do not use protection when having sex.
  • One in three says she fears having a sexually transmitted disease.
  • 24 percent of teens with STDs say they still have unprotected sex.
  • One in five girls says she wants to be a teen mom.
  • About 50 percent acknowledge that they’ve hit someone.
  • One out of three teens has tried drugs.
  • I graduated from high school in 2007, and guys who carried condoms with them were the ones we thought to be cool. This is very scary to me, especially because I have two teen sisters entering high school next year in a city where sex education is usually ignored, and teen pregnancy rates are pretty high.

    Dr. Elizabeth Schroeder, executive director of Answer, a teen sex education program based at Rutgers University, said the survey results sound plausible and are consistent with other research on teen sexuality.

    This so clearly points to the need for comprehensive sexual education for kids,” Schroeder said. “An adolescent … is supposed to be making poor decisions. Developmentally this is the way they’re supposed to be behaving. They need help ….

    “Parents need help talking with their kids about sexuality, and schools need to be talking to kids about sexuality.”

    I hope this survey can make parents become more open about the reality of sex, drugs, and violence; schools can only do so much. I hope this can teach us once and for all that abstinence-only education is not the solution. We have so much work to do in this country and hopefully with the new presidency underway, we can solve these issues with realistic solutions that will actually work. I don’t want my sisters to be victims of risky teen sex, nor any other teens.

    Check out coverage of this survey on Go Left!

    Trend: Dads in the Picture

    Monday, November 17th, 2008

    I think fathers have an important role in reproductive justice since it takes two to tango. In the past so much attention was put on single mothers and never really put the father into the equation. However I see the trend towards including fathers in the picture to be a thing of reality instead of just hope. I was very excited when Barack Obama focused on the strengthening families with re-introducing the Responsible Fatherhood and Healthy Families Act with his campaign and now by being the president-elect his official agenda includes resigning this act into law under his Urban Policy Agenda.

    Now New York City has followed Obama’s initiative by creating an advertising campaign “10 Ways to be a Great Dad” to encourage fathers to stay involved in their children’s lives.

    The campaign encourages fathers to:

    1) Eat Together
    2) Listen
    3) Encourage
    4) Respect
    5) Talk it Out
    6) Spend Time Together
    7) Read
    8) Be a Role Model
    9) A Father’s Job is Never Done
    10) Hug and Kiss

    I really like this campaign because it encourages men to be involved in their children’s lives. This campaign will take place in all 5 boroughs of NYC in subways and on buses. We all know how media and advertising greatly affects our lives, so I hope this public ad campaign on fatherhood will inspires fathers to step up and take care of their children.

    Another Disney naked picture “scandal”

    Wednesday, November 12th, 2008

    I love the interwebs. I love technology, and I love all the various and sundry things we can do with technology. The problem is, of course, when technology is used to slut-shame young women.

    So, we have a case of a young woman (albeit a famous one, but that’s irrelevant) taking pictures that were meant to only be seen by her boyfriend. Her laptop gets stolen, and - surprise - the pictures end up on the internet. Aside from the obvious invasion of privacy, there’s deeper questions about female sexuality here - why it’s seen as a source of shame and embarrassment, and why it’s used as a weapon against women.

    I recently learned that there’s a market for pictures like this - no, not simply nude pictures of women, but pictures that have been taken specifically for private use (boyfriend, girlfriend, or what-have-you) and then leaked on the internet. I’m not judging anyone for enjoying those pictures - I don’t believe that interest in any sort of pornography (except extremely violent pornography) is indicative of someone’s morals or character, since what we find arousing is, to some degree, a product of the culture we live in.

    But it is worth examining why the market exists for pictures like this. Is it pleasure in knowing that these women have been exposed against their will, outside of their comfort zone? Is it a form of revenge - punishing a woman for transgressive behavior?

    [Sidenote: I would argue that it isn’t transgressive behavior in the sense of displaying the female body for male (in most cases) consumption. The transgressive nature of the act arises out of the virgin-whore divide - the women who participate in acts of that nature are those women, not the women you know and interact with on a daily basis.]

    I’m always confused by this. We’re supposed to be sexy, but not sexual? If that’s the case, we aren’t supposed to do anything because we genuinely want to (and I don’t see anything wrong with the act of taking naughty pictures for a significant other - I would only worry because who knows - it may end up on the internet).

    Instead of looking at situations like this like, oh, one more celebrity making bad decisions, we need to start looking at it like “oh, one more celebrity making her own decisions, and one more example of someone not respecting that decision.”

    Dear Mr. President-Elect Obama,

    Thursday, November 6th, 2008

    Congratulations. Words seem too small to express the historic nature of this election. A country founded on and formed by racial slavery and genocide has elected a person of color to its highest office. The fight for racial justice continues, but this is a vital moment in our national story.

    And now the real work begins.

    Young voters supported you by an astounding margin, over two to one. Perhaps more importantly, youths played a crucial role in your grassroots-style campaign. A new generation of organizers has been activated, and not a moment too soon.

    The past eight years have been devastating for human rights in the US and abroad. The neoconservative Christian fundamentalist agenda has attacked the reproductive rights and health of young people, a crucial part of any comprehensive human rights framework. Mr. President-elect, we need you as an ally in our quest for Reproductive Justice.

    Federally funded abstinence only programs have left a generation unprepared to make informed decisions about their sexual and reproductive health. In this election young people have shown themselves to be highly motivated critical thinkers. Mr. Obama, we need you to fulfill your promise of providing federally funded comprehensive sexuality education that respects our intelligence and ability to make decisions for ourselves.

    We’ve also seen federal funds funneled into Crisis Pregnancy Centers, far right religious organizations that often deliberately mislead women in order to prevent them from pursuing and obtaining abortions. It’s time to start trusting people to make their own decisions about their health, and to make available the necessary resources, including contraception and birth control, so those decisions can be informed and based on the a wide range of available options.

    The attack on reproductive health has been part of a broader attack on the well being of Americans. Too many young people do not have the option of making the choices they want to about their health because they cannot afford medical care. Healthcare should be, must be a human right. This country is long overdue for a truly universal healthcare system. In a time of economic crisis the ability to afford medical care should never be a question. No one should ever have to worry about being able to obtain the reproductive healthcare they need.

    Reproductive Justice is about more than access to quality care and prevention methods, though. Intersections of oppression along lines of gender, race, class, ability, geography, and immigration status negatively affect the reproductive health of so many young people. Environmental degradation isn’t just about moose – the harm we are doing to our environment has a huge negative effect on our health, and hurts those with the least relative power and privilege first and most dramatically. We need the right to have children, too. This is impossible when, for example, indigenous women find themselves unable to conceive or giving birth to children who are sick because of environmental toxins. Racist anti-immigrant sentiment and laws puts the health of undocumented immigrants at risk. We need you to be a president who will think about the impact to our reproductive health of every major issue that crosses your desk.

    The past eight years have hurt us, but this movement has been fighting an uphill battle for a lot longer than that. For over thirty years we have watched as the right to have an abortion has been limited more and more. If young women can’t afford the procedure what good does that right do them? It’s time, finally time, to repeal the Hyde Amendment. It’s time to trust women to make decisions about their own bodies, not to limit when medical care should and should not be available based on moralistic ideas that ignore lived experience. Choice needs to be possible.

    Despite legislation like the Violence Against Women Act, the nightmare of sexual violence has not gone away. Instead, such policies have led to a massive prison system that does nothing to make people safer, and in fact has the opposite effect. While we debate marriage rights, queer and trans youth are dying in cold blood. We need radical new ideas about how to address violence in a way that does not resort to government violence, to fundamentally change our culture.

    US policy has a large impact on people the world over. War in Afghanistan and Iraq makes even the idea of reproductive and sexual freedom impossible for so many people. Mr. President-elect, end these wars.

    And end the Global Gag Rule. Please, let healthcare providers do their jobs.

    Mr. Obama, the challenges you face as you prepare to take office are daunting. I was grateful you recognized this in your acceptance speech, and heartened by your openness to hear from your constituents about our needs, our desires, our hopes. The above are just some of the issues my friends and I care deeply about. In the next few weeks, months, and years you’ll be hearing a lot more from us about these and other concerns.

    The pro-choice youth of the US have a clear picture of what we want our future to be and are not afraid to demand of government what we need to realize that vision. I look forward to working with you, to an impassioned debate of ideas, to forming a government and culture in the business of ensuring human rights for all. Watch and listen, Mr. President-elect, and work with us, as a movement of young people turns our dream of Reproductive Freedom into reality.

    Don’t Forget To Fill Out The ENTIRE Ballot!

    Monday, November 3rd, 2008

    Now I’ve been working with a campaign for Fair Wisconsin where we encourage people to “go all the way on election day.” Unfortunately, not many people go all the way, not because they voted for our next president, but because the local elections fly over their head. Listen up guys:

    THE LOCAL ELECTIONS ARE JUST AS IMPORTANT THAN THE NATIONAL ONES!

    I have asked many people in my area what ticket they’re supporting for the state senate and assembly, and they do not even know who is running! Now, I can blame the fact that all of our media comes from Minnesota since we’re right on the border, but that is no excuse to not do research on your own. Go down to your city clerk’s or city hall and find out who is running. Ask them for the candidates’ website, if they have one. Look up the current state senators and assembly(wo)man’s voting record. These are the people that determine the laws that will affect you as a resident of that state. When South Dakota had a ban on abortion, who do you think voted for that ban? The state assembly and senate. Remember to pick the candidate that best represents you and what you think needs to happen in your individual state. And one more thing:

    GO ALL THE WAY ON ELECTION DAY!

    Oh the stories you will hear…

    Monday, November 3rd, 2008

    Who’s seen the chain email being sent around about wearing campaign t-shirts or buttons? Who out there is confused about what you should bring to the polls with you? Or what about absentee ballots, those don’t count right?

    Every election cycle these myths seem to float to the surface and folks start to get nervous and confused and don’t know who to trust. Well once again, youth have put their heads together and have come with the good stuff, the facts that is.